by Brady Hill
Ah “love is in the air”… or so the song says. Songs have a way of romanticizing things. “Love will keep us together” is another example. If it were only that simple! Relationships can be very difficult – even when the parties do love each other. We tend to think that love is some kind of static power that magically makes everything okay. But as we all know, that is not the case.
Here you have two totally separately personalities, with totally different backgrounds, experiences, education, temperaments and expectations, trying to live together “as one”. Wow, what a challenge! It’s really a mystery how any two people can pull it off.
Then, along comes “love”.
This is where the romance part comes in. It’s sort of a “feeling things out” stage (no pun intended). It’s a “getting to know each other better” stage. Learning where each other’s boundaries are. Trying to figure out what they’re really like. This is the fun part, but no matter how much fun we have, it only lasts so long… unfortunately. But that’s the way it is. Sooner or later we start to see those little annoying things that we chose to overlook earlier on. Now they’re REALLY annoying things that begin to erode our illusions of that other person. This is where it gets tough. If you can make it past this phase you have a good chance of making it for the long haul. This is where a good psychic can help.
With their unique abilities, psychics can see behind all the “junk” that’s clouding our perceptions, and see the truth. But here again, the truth may be more that one or both parties can tolerate – especially when it’s about them! And it’s at this point where we either mature into the new insights, or give up on the whole thing.
For better or worse, the truth is always the best medicine. When a psychic gives you the truth about your partner or relationship, they’re not being insensitive or mean. Truth in their case is objective, not personal. It just is. And they’re just passing it on to you because you asked for it. It’s the truth that you should base your decisions on regarding your partner and relationship. So even if it is painful, it’s still the best thing for you.
I’m deliberately taking things to the extremes here to make a point. Your relationship may not be anywhere near the outside edges as described here. But if you’re honest with yourself, you know that there are things in your relationship that you’d like to see change. Maybe just some little changes are all you’re looking for, and that’s okay. You can still benefit from a good psychic reading.
Psychic readings prompt one to personal growth. The more you mature inside, the better things can be on the outside – in your relationship. It’s still not necessarily easy, but I think it’s better than the alternatives. If we’re truly honest with ourselves, we all have room for personal growth. I’ve never known anyone who had “arrived”, knew all they could know and grown all they could grow. Life, from start to finish, is a process. The best we can do is to be open to the truth, and be courageous enough to follow it.